Monday, September 30, 2013

Solo Suzhou Trip

Warning it's a little long :-)


This week is  Golden Week and it’s a week long Chinese holiday. No work for me! (Well I actually still need to finish reports that are due the day after we get back, but let’s not talk about that). Since my visa was not processed in time for me to get tickets out of China, Melissa and decided we would take a short trip to Suzhou, a smaller city that is only a 30 minutes away by speed train. We also decided that since we were not going somewhere exotic like Vietnam, Thailand, Instabul, or Bali (these are all places my co-workers are spending the week), we would splurge on a nice hotel. Sadly, Melissa got sick and couldn’t go. I decided to take the journey solo and I’m really glad I did.

It would have been so fun with another person, but it was really good to have something that forced me out of my comfort zone. I needed this trip to remind myself that I’m self-sufficient and I can go places and do things and have fun by myself.  I get a little too comfortable sometimes in my apartment and simple routine. China can be a little intimidating! I feel like I haven't been out and seen much yet and I'm working on changing that. It was soooo hot when I first got here and then I was so busy adjusting to a new job and everything and now I've been here two months and I still don't really know what is in my neighborhood. I remind myself that I'm spending at least two years here so there is time, but I want to do and see more and sometimes that means taking initiative and doing it on my own. 

So I took off Saturday morning to catch the speed train to Suzhou. The train station is huge and a little confusing at first. I spent a lot of time walking back and forth trying to figure out where I needed to go. I did eventually figure it out and made it my first class train car. I knew it was a short train ride, but I didn't realize how short. When they called "Suzhou Station" over the speakers I panicked a little and wondered if that was really my stop or if there were multiple stations in Suzhou. I did decide to get off there. 

I had my hotel written in Chinese and my original plan was to go to the hotel and then figure out places to go from there. Since I was staying at a nicer hotel I knew they could tell me what places I should visit and help me get taxi's. However, I couldn't check in til 2pm and it was 12 and when I got out of the train station it was raining and muggy and solo exploring and catching taxi's in a city I'd never been to suddenly became way less appealing. A guy from a Chinese tours company approached me and showed me their little tour pamphlet. It was like 15 dollars for a 4 hour tour and that including admission to the places and the bus ride. It sounded a lot easier then figuring it out on my own plus I figured it would make for a good cultural experience and some laughs as I was the only non-Chinese person on the bus. I think the red hat was what really sold me. 

So the tour begun and I don't know where we went. We took a boat through some canals and visited a silk museum and some other places. The pictures didn't really turn out. It was pretty cloudy and muggy out. 








It was a pretty ridiculous couple of hours. I was laughing to myself most of the time. A couple of older South African guys joined the tour later and it was nice having a couple English speaking buddies (Although they spoke mostly Afrikaans to each other). I was really glad I did it, because it did take up the whole afternoon and it was fun but I had hit my max for "cultural experiences" for the day so I was looking forward to finding my hotel. 

I got a taxi to my hotel using my paper with the hotel written on it. Luckily,  I also had the hotel number on the paper cause he didn't quite know where it was and he called the hotel. I guess I was staying on the opposite side of town from everything, but it worked out. The hotel we randomly selected was so nice! I'm not sure I've ever stayed somewhere so nice. I loved it. 




That evening I made plans to meet up with my friend Alyssa's family who lives in Suzhou.Meeting up with the Jones met taking the subway across town. I love the subway in Shanghai. I feel pretty comfortable using it so I was fairly certain I could figure it out in Suzhou. Plus Suzhou only has one line while Shanghai has 11.  I made the plans early in the day over text messages so I didn’t know where my hotel was and where the metro was, but I hoping there would be one close or the hotel people could help me get a taxi to a near by station. I paid extra attention in the taxi on the way to the hotel and I saw a metro station and it was only a couple blocks from my hotel. I went, got checked in to my AMAZING hotel, and then made my journey to meet the Jones family. I looked at a map later that night and realized that I had been all over the city that day and I didn’t get lost or even feel lost ever and it felt good.

I met Alyssa aunt and cousins for dinner and then coffee and it was so good. I had briefly met them at Alyssa’s wedding back in June. They have been in Suzhou for three years. Alyssa’s uncle is the pastor of an international church there. I'm so glad it worked out to meet up with them! 

After dinner I went back the hotel and enjoyed the fancy room. I ordered room service as a midnight snack. There were a few American TV stations, one was showing a marathon of Jimmy Falcon show so I watched that.  I felt like I was in America for the night.

The next morning I decided I would check out one of the gardens since I had time before I needed to catch my train. I also wanted to go somewhere pretty since it was actually sunny out. I went to Humble Administrator Garden since it was close to the Train Station and it was so beautiful. Man, I have missed nature. Being surrounded by trees and flowers was satisfying for my soul.  There were so many hidden areas to explore and little caves and big rocks to climb up on. I loved it here.





After spending a couple hours here I headed to the train station and went back to Shanghai. Such a fun trip! 



Sunday, September 8, 2013

Busy Busy


I’ve been in Shanghai a little over a month and it’s been a crazy, overwhelming, and wonderful month.

Life is really busy at the moment. School is full swing, there are parties and events, and there’s no slowing down.

I finally got paid and it’s been so nice to have money! I finally got a dvd player, a nice mattress pad and bedding (my bed is so amazing now), more candles and pictures frames. It’s really starting to feel like home.



School is going so well. My kids are really fun. Hoping in a couple months they will be able to understand me. Haha. It’s a process. It’s fun hearing them say English words and sing the songs I’ve been teaching. We’re learning the five senses the next few weeks so we will be doing lots of fun activities! I have a classroom website. Send me a private message if you want the link.


My weeks are really busy with school and meetings. I’m also taking a kick-boxing class twice a week. One of the parents from our school comes in and teaches a class. The class is a good work out and it’s fun. I’m going to also get a yoga mat for home. 


It’s a good thing I’m doing kick-boxing, because I’ve been eating out a lot! Shanghai just has so much to offer and it’s all so good. We went to La Creperie last weekend and it was delicious. I’m sad I didn’t take a picture of the dessert one.
Yesterday we went to a restaurant called Fortune Cookie and it was so good! It's serves Americanized Chinese food and it was so good! I really like authentic Chinese food, but man was it good to have some orange chicken and sweet and sour chicken. I'll be going back for sure. 


Weekends are busy too! But a fun busy! Last weekend my friend Nichola and I went to get pedicures. The place we wanted to go was too busy to take us so we ended up at a different  place that was a little sketchy, but it worked out. Flower pedals in the water and they gave us tea with an actual flower in it! We were cracking up laughing!








Friday was my friend's Jenny's birthday and we went to a nice Mexican restaurant to celebrate. It was yummy and it was fun to spend some more time with co-workers.


Life is good!